How to know when you’ve met the one

how to know when you've met the one

Some women are scared that they won’t recognise ‘the one’ when they come across him or they have 2 guys on their case and don’t know who to choose.  The best way to deal with that kind of situation is to be prepared – Boys’ Scout style and that’s why I’ve written this post.

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So, how do you prepare for such a situation like this?  What you need to do is to find out who your ideal man is, even when you’re not dating anybody.  So, what you need to do is write out a list of the traits that your ideal man would have.  The list can have as many things on it as you want.  So, just write down the list, put down all the traits that you want your ideal man to have and then read through the list.


What I need you to do next is to rearrange the list.  So, item number 1 is the trait that is most important to you that a man have, item number 2 is the second most important trait and so on and so forth.  When you’ve rearranged your list, the top 3 things on that list are the things that are essential that your ideal man have.  These are the things that are very important to you.


So when next you meet a man and you’re not sure whether he’s the one or not, go through your mind and see if he has the qualities that you’ve put at the top of your list before, those top 3 qualities.  See if he has those qualities.


If there are 2 men in your life and you’re not sure which one to choose, go back to that list and think of the top 3 things on that list.  If one of them has those top 3 qualities, then perhaps he is the right man for you.


I’m a relationship coach for single women over 30 and over the years, I’ve written different e-books.  One of them is called 7 Steps to Meeting the One and I think you’ll find it particularly useful.  To get it, just click here.


Until next time, take care of yourself.  Bye!