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What to do when he pulls away

To attract the right man for you, you have to understand men as a whole and that can be very difficult because men and women are different, really very different.  Which is why it is difficult for one sex to understand the other and that’s why I’m here today.  I’m going to be trying to…

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Why guys treat you like an option

Have you ever asked somebody to buy you food and said something like, “Please help me buy jollof rice.  If they don’t have jollof rice, buy me beans but it’s jollof rice I really want”?  If you’ve ever said anything like that, then you’re treating beans like an option.  It’s not really your first choice. …

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Dating mistakes to avoid

Hindsight is 20-20, especially when it comes to dating.  When you look back on your dating life, it’s easy to see where you made mistakes but somehow, when you’re in it, it’s difficult to know what you’re doing wrong.   Believe me, I made a ton of mistakes when I was dating and as a…

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Why men give mixed signals

I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 and as a result of that, one of the complaints I hear most from women who are dating is about how men give mixed signals.  So today, I’m going to be talking about why men give mixed signals and what you can do…

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How to handle breadcrumbing

There are many issues with modern dating and one of them is BREADCRUMBING.  When you’re on the receiving end of breadcrumbing, it can feel incredibly frustrating and that’s why I decided to make today’s video.  Today, I’m going to be talking about breadcrumbing, what it is and how to handle it. To watch the video,…

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How to meet people without an app

In today’s world, dating apps abound.  That doesn’t mean people are having the time of their lives dating, though.  In fact, what I hear from women is that they’re not that keen on dating apps and that’s why I’m here today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to meet people without apps. To…

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