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5 relationship mistakes single women make

You know the great thing about mistakes?  Everyone makes them!  And when it comes to relationships, the mistakes we make are even more interesting/ amusing/ disastrous than those made in other spheres of life.  Another thing about mistakes is that people generally make the same ones, over and over again.  It’s like a crazy cycle….

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What men want

  After a string of bad relationships, it’s natural for a woman to ask herself what men want.  From time to time, single women ask me this question.  My first reaction (which I never say) is ‘Forget what men want.  What do you want?’  Because I believe that that’s the first step in getting the…

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Are you going to be alone forever?

One of my favourite books is Bridget Jones’ Diary by Helen Fielding.  In the (highly unlikely) event that you’ve never read the book (or watched the movie), Bridget Jones’ Diary is about the life of a single 30-something year old British woman and her desperate desire to find love.  It’s a very funny book about…

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7 ways you’ll know he loves you

Women always wonder if the guy they’re with really loves them.  It’s a basic insecurity most women have.  While there’s no sure-fire way to tell if a guy is crazy about you, usually, he’ll give you signs that let you know he is.  These signs are not proof that he will love you forever and…

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The #1 dating mistake

When we look back on our lives, there are many things we wish we hadn’t done or mistakes that we made and now regret.  There’s no point in moping about what could have been – the past is the past- but there’s a lot to gain from looking at your past, studying your mistakes and…

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How goal-setting can help you get married

It’s not a very romantic idea but goal-setting really can help you get married. It worked for me.  To be clear, I actually set a goal to be engaged (not married) by a certain time.  All the same, it worked out.  It didn’t happen by magic though.