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How to handle negging

You experience all sorts of things in today’s dating world. From things like zombieing and ghosting to baiting, orbiting and more. It can all feel overwhelming. By the way, if you’re wondering what any of those terms meaning, just search for them on my blog. I’ve made videos on those dating terms and more so…

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Why they treat you badly

You and your boyfriend or husband are in the car on the way to a friend’s party when the two of you get into an argument. He parks the car on the side of the road and orders you to get out. Shocked, you refuse and try to reason with him. Instead, he angrily opens…

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Why you aren’t married yet

Although I’m a relationship coach who helps both men and women over the age of 30, a large portion of my audience is made up of women so today’s video is for them.  From what I can tell, more women than men want to get married and more women than men worry if they’re not married…

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