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3 qualities of a good relationship

If you would like to listen to the audio version of this post rather than read, click on the image below.  (Clicking on the image will take you to a form you’ll need to fill to get the audio download.) Relationships are such strange things.  Everyone wants different things from them.  Some people go into a relationship…

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How to enjoy dating in your 30s

Dating, when you’re a woman over 30, can be a nightmare!  I know because I’ve been there.  You have to have experienced it to fully appreciate it – the highs of dating someone new and fun and the lows when the person you thought was fun turns out to be beyond boring or borderline crazy. …

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3 tips for the newly-married woman

Many years ago, a friend of mine was getting married and asked me to do her makeup.  (Fun fact:  doing makeup used to be a side-hustle of mine).  Anyway, on the morning of my friend’s wedding, right before I started doing her makeup, I noticed that different women would come and ask to speak to…

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How to be happy while single

When you’re a woman over 30 and single, it can be hard to stay happy.  The funny thing is that society seems to support the idea that if you’re a single woman over 30, you should be miserable.  I remember a single lady in her 30s that I met a while ago.  She was vibrant,…

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5 signs a guy likes you

When a guy likes you, he often shows many signs that he does but because men and women are so different, what he thinks are clear signs he’s interested in you may appear quite fuzzy to you.  I remember towards the end of my time in secondary school, one of my favourite ways to torture…

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How to handle infidelity (Part 1)

We have to accept that in relationships today, women cheat almost as men.  There are no statistics we can refer to here but I believe infidelity is on the rise.  Both men and women cheat.  I suspect men still cheat more often that women but I don’t have evidence of that of course.  While I…

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