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Dating mistakes to avoid

Hindsight is 20-20, especially when it comes to dating.  When you look back on your dating life, it’s easy to see where you made mistakes but somehow, when you’re in it, it’s difficult to know what you’re doing wrong.   Believe me, I made a ton of mistakes when I was dating and as a…

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Why men give mixed signals

I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 and as a result of that, one of the complaints I hear most from women who are dating is about how men give mixed signals.  So today, I’m going to be talking about why men give mixed signals and what you can do…

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How to handle breadcrumbing

There are many issues with modern dating and one of them is BREADCRUMBING.  When you’re on the receiving end of breadcrumbing, it can feel incredibly frustrating and that’s why I decided to make today’s video.  Today, I’m going to be talking about breadcrumbing, what it is and how to handle it. To watch the video,…

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How to meet people without an app

In today’s world, dating apps abound.  That doesn’t mean people are having the time of their lives dating, though.  In fact, what I hear from women is that they’re not that keen on dating apps and that’s why I’m here today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to meet people without apps. To…

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Why guys take hours to text back

Sometimes, the trials of modern dating amuse me.  A hundred years ago, the issue of how long a guy takes before he texts you back or who a guy ‘liked’ on Instagram just didn’t come up.  In fact, why am I saying ‘a hundred years ago’?  Even ten years ago, some of these issues didn’t…

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How to be irresistible to men

There are women who always seem to have men around them, seemingly without even having to try.  Men just can’t seem to resist those women.  You might even have a friend like that.  You and your friends go out all dressed to the nines but somehow, that same friend is the one men always seem…

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