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How to resist family pressure to marry

Today’s post is about how to resist family pressure to marry.  As a single woman in Nigeria, when you get to a particular age, you start feeling pressure to get married.  When that pressure comes from your family, it is particularly difficult to handle.  So, what should you do if you’re feeling pressure to get…

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How to handle side chicks

A friend told me that her friends said side chicks are winning.  They felt that this was the truth and it was a really hot topic for them so I knew I had to do a video about it. To watch the video, click on the image below.   Prefer to read rather that watch…

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How to handle money and men

It’s a tricky business handling money and men, especially if you guys are just dating and aren’t in a committed relationship yet.  To help you navigate that minefield, I made this video on how to handle money and men. To watch the video, click on the image below.   Prefer to read rather that watch…

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How to handle office romance

Hi lovelies!  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to handle an office romance.  That’s a really juicy topic so I hope you’ll check out the whole post. To watch the video, click on the image below.   Prefer to read rather that watch the video?  Here’s what’s in it:  We all know that…

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What to do on a first date

Congratulations!  You’re about to go on a first date with someone new and you want some tips.  Look no further!  Check out my video below for things to be aware of before, during and after that first date. To watch the video, click on the image below.   Prefer to read rather that watch the…

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