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How to handle orbiting

If you’re trying to find love or you’re on the dating scene, you’ve probably been to hell and back.  The way people behave when they’re dating seems to change every day and the terms to describe those behaviours seem to change just as often.  So in today’s video, I’m going to be describing another dating…

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How to know the One

Sometimes, as a woman, when you’re dating or looking for someone to settle down with or marry, the problem isn’t that there are no men, the problem is that the men that you’re dating or even your ex were okay but should you marry someone because they’re okay?   Is this person truly right for…

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Love tips for couples in lockdown

Ladies and gentlemen, these are most unusual times. I don’t know what’s going on in your part of the world exactly but here in Nigeria, because of the great disease whose name we must not mention, the government has implemented stay-at-home orders for certain parts of the country and…it’s been tough.   The stay-at-home order has been…

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Why your partner constantly cheats

If you talk to women about relationships for any length of time, it won’t take long before the conversation drifts to how men cheat all the time.  That’s the reality for many women in relationships so I’m hoping to help with this video.  Today, I’m going to be talking about why your partner constantly cheats….

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Love in the time of Covid

The world right now is going through something it never has before – a pandemic disease caused by the virus Covid-19.  This infectious ailment has forced many states to recommend quarantine and isolation in order to contain the disease and prevent it from spreading further.   While quarantine and isolation are excellent in helping us…

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Why your ex wants to be friends

I’ve noticed that when couples break up, one person usually wants to remain friends.  In today’s video, I’m going to be talking from the point of view of the woman so I’ll be discussing what happens when the couple breaks up and the guy is the one that wants to remain friends.  Many women are…

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How to get out of the friend zone

Today’s blog post is for the guys.  Have you ever met a girl you liked, become friends with her in the hopes that it will turn into something more only to discover that months later, she’s still introducing you to other people as her friend?  Have you been put in the friend zone and now,…

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