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How to get your ex back

As a relationship coach who helps single women over 30 attract the right relationship for them, one of the questions I hear over and over again is “How do I get my ex back?”  I hear this question so often that I finally decided to make a video about it. To watch the video, click…

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How to build your self-esteem

Today, I’m going to be talking about how to build your self-esteem as a single woman over 30.  The reason that many women stay in bad relationships or why they keep dating guys who treat them badly over and over and over again is a very simple thing and the reason is because they have…

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Why bad girls get good guys

In my work as a relationship coach, I hear all the time from women who feel that bad girls get good guys while they are left with nothing.  These women say that they’ve been good.  They didn’t have pre-marital sex, they work hard and they are nice people so they don’t understand why they keep…

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Where to find good guys

One of the questions I hear most often is “Where are the good guys?”  Today, I’m going to answer that question. To watch the video, click on the image below.   Prefer to read rather that watch the video?  Here’s what’s in it:  The search for good guys is a global one.  There are even…

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How to stop settling

  I’m sure you know more than one woman who just settled for the guy she’s with.  Settling is such a common and sad phenomenon that I decided to create a blog post about it.  But first of all, what IS settling?  Settling to me is when a woman dates a guy that she feels…

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