Why he won’t commit

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I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 so I often come into contact with issues that women have while they’re single, dating or in relationships.  Naturally, a lot of the same issues come up again and again.  One of the ones that comes up most often is when a woman asks why won’t a man commit to her?  If you’ve been asking yourself that question then you’ve come to the right place because today, I’ll be talking about why he won’t commit.

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There are two main reasons why a man won’t commit to you.  The 1st reason is because you have given him the option not to.  If you’re in a situationship with a man, if you let him leave your life and then come back into it whenever he wants, if you date him for years and years without getting him to define the status of your relationship or without getting him to say what exactly you guys are doing or when you’re going to get married, then he will see no reason to have any sincere form of commitment to you.  So, the first reason why a man won’t commit to you is because you have given him the option not to.


The 2nd reason why a man won’t commit to you is because he is NOT in love with you.  Now, I hate having to say, “He is not in love with you” to anybody.  I hate it because I know that it hurts so much.  But I also know that I have to say it so that you’ll accept what is likely the truth and start to rebuild your life.  If a man won’t commit to you in a way that makes you and him happy, it’s because he’s not in love with you.


It’s not because it’s bad timing, it’s not because he is busy in the office right now, it’s not because he thinks you’re too good for him or any such nonsense like that.  It’s because he’s not in love with you and he is too polite to tell you so.  Please don’t believe that rumour or that story that he’s just not the marrying kind.


Outside of religion, there are very few men who never marry at least once in their lifetime.   There are very few men like that.  Almost every single man in this world marries at some point in time so really, every man is the marrying kind – it just depends on the time.  Having said that, that doesn’t mean you should wait for him.  If a man truly loves you, he will commit to you or marry you rather than lose you.  When a man finds a woman he really wants to marry, he will do so without any excuses.


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