How to find love as an empath

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The better you know yourself, the easier it will be for you to find the right partner for you.  So if you know certain things about yourself whether it’s your Myers-Briggs personality type, your zodiac sign or any other characterisation of your personality, the easier things will be for you in your search for the ideal romantic partner.  That thinking is what has led me to make today’s video about empaths, specifically, how to find love as an empath so if that is a topic that intrigues you, keep watching.

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Before we go into how to find love as an empath, it makes sense for us to talk about what an empath is in the first place.  An empath is a person who is able to sense what other people are feeling without them actually saying anything at all.  Empaths are very sensitive people who rely heavily on their intuition to make sense of other people and the world, in general.  Some empaths are so sensitive they can actually feel it in their body when someone around them is physically ill.  Empaths are also good in sensing the vibe of a place.

 

Being an empath is an amazing thing but of course, it comes with its own downsides.  Because an empath feels so much of what is going on around them, it means that they can get tired very quickly – emotionally, physically and mentally.  Crowds tend to wear them out quickly so it means that a lot of empaths tend to be introverts who prefer their own company or being with only one or two people who are very close to them.  Being sensitive to other people’s emotions and wanting to help them means that empaths often attract people with very serious problems – emotional and otherwise.

 

Now, as an empath, what can you do to find love?  Finding love as an empath is not easy but it can be done.  Here are 3 tips that can help you:

 

One, protect your energy. A lot of people with very serious problems tend to flock towards empaths and this can quickly drain one.  So if you’re an empath, protect your energy all the time.  Learn to say ‘no’.  Realise that you cannot save the whole world and remember that you cannot pour from an empty cup.  Make sure that you’re in a good place, particularly energy-wise, before you try to help others.

 

Remember that someone needing your help does not mean that they are the ideal partner for you.  A healthy relationship isn’t made of one broken person and one healthy person.  A good relationship is made up of two whole people coming together to form a healthy unit that works.

 

My 2nd tip on how to find love as an empath is to visualise what you want.  Now, empaths are very good at visualising and having whatever they visualise come into their lives because they are so reliant on their emotions.  And emotions are one of the best ways to make your visualisations manifest.

 

Visualise the ideal romantic partner you want for yourself using your innate empathic abilities and watch as that person comes into your life with ease.  If you want more tips on how to use visualisation to attract your ideal partner into your life, get my ebook, 7 Steps to Meeting the One.  You can get it here.

 

My 3rd tip on how to find love as an empath is to believe in yourself.  Empaths tend to care a lot about what other people think but doing that can prevent the right person for you from coming into your life and can also prevent you from keeping that person if they finally do come into your life.

 

No one can know you as well as you do so take other people’s suggestions on who you should date with a pinch of salt.  Who other people think you should date and who you know that you should date are sometimes very different.  So know yourself, believe in yourself and you’ll attract true love.

 

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