Start with my FREE content.

Get Started Here!

Get weekly love tips

Relationship Blog

Take your love life to the next level.

Read the latest posts ›

1-on-1 Coaching

Work directly with Lape for maximum results in your life.

Get 1-on-1 help today ›

My Books

Be happy, find love and live the life you want.

Visit my store ›

What to do when you’ve been zombied

Modern dating comes with different terms and slangs.  Some of them like breadcrumbing, ghosting and gaslighting, I’ve talked about in different videos on this channel.  So today, I’m going to be talking about a new one called zombieing.  Today, I’m going to talk about what to do when you’ve been zombied. To watch the video,…

Continue Reading ›

How to be the woman men respect

As a woman, it’s fairly easy to have guys flocking around you.  Usually, that’s because they fancy you and want to have sex with you.  What’s more difficult yet more important than having guys fancy you is having them respect you and that’s what I’m going to be talking about today.  Today, I’m going to…

Continue Reading ›

How to find love as an empath

The better you know yourself, the easier it will be for you to find the right partner for you.  So if you know certain things about yourself whether it’s your Myers-Briggs personality type, your zodiac sign or any other characterisation of your personality, the easier things will be for you in your search for the…

Continue Reading ›

Biggest relationship lessons learned

Learning from other people’s mistakes or their experience is an absolute blessing, especially when it comes to relationships.  It saves you time and a lot of heartache.  So today, I’m going to be talking about the biggest lessons I’ve learned from past relationships as well as the biggest and commonest lessons that I’ve seen women…

Continue Reading ›