Have you ever been in a situation where your boyfriend keeps going back and forth between you and another woman? From what I hear, this situation is pretty common and that’s why I’m focusing on it today. Today, I’m going to be talking about what to do when he keeps going back to her.
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As a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30, one of the common issues I hear about is when a man keeps going back and forth between two women. Usually, it drives one or both women crazy! So, what can you do if you find yourself in that situation? I’ll tell you in a minute but first, I want to say that if you like the content I create about love, dating, men, self-esteem and all of that, please give this video a ‘like’, subscribe to this channel and also click on the bell that you’ll see after you subscribe so that you’ll be notified as soon as a new video of mine comes out. Thank you so much for doing that.
A man going back and forth between two women is pretty common. Sometimes what happens is, you’re dating a guy then one day, he comes to tell you that he wants to go back to his ex. If he has never really spoken about his ex before, this may come to you out of the blue. It’s like you’ve been blindsided. Then after a while, the guy comes back to you and says that he is over his ex, he doesn’t know what he was thinking and he asks you to take him back. You, because you’re ready to forgive and you want to give him another chance, take him back. Only for him to come back again and say that he wants to go back to his ex. Crazy, right?
Another version of this is when you’re dating a guy then one day, he comes to tell you that he has met somebody else and he wants to go and be with her. And then later, he comes back to you and says he made a mistake. He doesn’t want to be with that person. You are the person he wants to be with. That can be so annoying.
First of all, if this is the first time he is doing this to you, it’s a forgivable offence, really. If he seems truly sorry for leaving you, if you have taken time to think about it and you think it’s a good idea, then consider taking him back. Look, we’re all human beings. We all make mistakes. This is something you may have done to someone else earlier too. So, if you think he has learnt his lesson and he is fully invested in this relationship with you, think about it. If your guy says you should go with it, then let him back into your life and give the relationship another try.
However, if he has done this more than once; that is, if he has left you, come back and left you again, or he has done this several times, know that he is probably very attached to the other woman. It is unlikely he will ever let her go. What you should do is let HIM go.
I’ve heard of women who, in this situation, instead of letting the guy go, they married him. Unfortunately, after the marriage, the guy still left to go back to the other woman. And this time, when he left, he didn’t come back. It’s better to judge men by their actions. No matter how much he says he loves you, if he keeps going back to her, he doesn’t love you. His actions make that clear.
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