Dating mistakes to avoid

dating mistakes to avoid

Hindsight is 20-20, especially when it comes to dating.  When you look back on your dating life, it’s easy to see where you made mistakes but somehow, when you’re in it, it’s difficult to know what you’re doing wrong.


Believe me, I made a ton of mistakes when I was dating and as a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30, I see women making many mistakes as well.  I don’t want you to make the same dating mistakes that I made or the same mistakes that other women are making.  That’s why I’m here today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about the dating mistakes to avoid in order to get the relationship that you want.

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Like I said earlier, I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 so my advice is going to be geared towards this group of women.  However, if you’re not over 30 or you’re not a woman, you might still find some of these tips useful so don’t go anywhere yet.


I’m going to be talking about the 3 main dating mistakes to avoid.  The 1st thing to avoid is dating someone despite the red flags that you see.  If you go on a date with somebody or you’ve had a few dates with somebody and you keep feeling as if something is off or you keep getting these red flags that tell you that this person is not right for you, don’t ignore those feelings.  Those feelings are your intuition trying to save you time, money and heartache.


The 2nd dating mistake to avoid is dating somebody who shows they have no respect for you.  People do this in a variety of ways.  If the person you’re dating makes fun of you despite your request for them to stop, if they’re always late, if they try to get you to do things that are illegal or unethical, this person is showing that they have no respect for you.  They will not change.


One thing we women tend to believe is that a person will change once they get into a relationship with us or that we can turn the person into something that we want.  Neither belief is true.  If a person disrespects you when you start dating them, they will do that and worse when you get into a relationship with them.  Don’t keep dating somebody who has shown they have no respect for you.


The 3rd dating mistake to avoid is dating somebody who discourages you from seeing your friends and family.  That is just plain manipulation.  It’s usually a very bad sign.  When someone tries to discourage you from seeing your friends and family, they’re trying to isolate you in order to better control you.  When someone tries to control you, it is never for a good reason and it never leads to a positive place.  Usually, it ends in some form of abuse.  Please do not continue dating somebody who tries to keep you away from your loved ones.


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