Why you’re still single

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If you’re a single woman wondering why you’re still single then this video is for you.  In case you’re new to me and my blog, my blog (and YouTube channel) are all about how to help single women over the age of 30 attract the right relationship for them or attract true love.  So if that is a topic you’re interested in, you should have a look around this site because you’re bound to find things you like.  Now, let’s get back to the topic for today – why you’re still single.

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There are 3 main reasons why you’re still single.  The 1st is that no matter what you say, you don’t really, really, REALLY want to get married.  I know, that might sound difficult particularly if you’ve been saying “Oh, you want to get married, you want to get married” for a long time.


If you think marriage is a necessary evil, if you think that marriage is a way that society has found to imprison women, if you think that marriage is something that will turn you into a glorified servant or househelp then you don’t really like the idea of marriage and you don’t really want to get married and that’s fine.  It just means you’re not ready for marriage yet.  Just accept it and that’s why you’re still single.


The 2nd reason why you’re still single is that you think that men are evil.  It’s true – some women think that.  And I think many single women, if they’ve been single for a while, go through a point when they think that.  If you’re at that stage where you think that men are evil, if you think that they are nasty, horrible creatures then it’s not likely that you’re going to marry a nice, wonderful one.  It just doesn’t happen that way.  That is the 2nd reason why you’re still single.


The 3rd and final reason that you’re still single is that you have refused to change in a relevant way.  You can’t keep doing the same things over and over again and expect to get a new thing in your life – in this case, a new relationship or to get married.  The biggest change you can make is in yourself and you need to make that change.


You need to invest in yourself and start taking steps towards becoming your ideal person.  When you become that person then you’ll attract the right person for you into your life.  That is the only way it can work.  You do need to change.  Now, when I say you need to change, I don’t mean you need to change to suit a man.  That will lead to unhappiness – guaranteed.  When you change, you need to change for yourself.  You need to change because you want to become a better person.  When you do that, then you will attract the right person for you.


Those are the 3 main reasons why you’re still single.  If there’s a topic you want me to cover in my next video, please leave it in the comments section below and I’ll do my best to make a video about it soon.


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