Why men give mixed signals

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I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 and as a result of that, one of the complaints I hear most from women who are dating is about how men give mixed signals.  So today, I’m going to be talking about why men give mixed signals and what you can do about it.

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First of all, what do I mean by ‘mixed signals’ when it comes to dating?  When you’re getting mixed signals from a guy, it means that sometimes, he acts as if he wants to be in a relationship with you and other times, he doesn’t.  This may manifest or show itself in different ways.  For example, he might say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you but he calls you regularly and you guys make out from time to time.


Or you get tired of always being the one to contact him so you refuse to contact him for several days then he calls you one day, out of the blue, and complains about how you’ve forgotten about him and you don’t call him anymore when in actual fact, he is the one that hasn’t contacted you in ages.  He is the one that stopped contacting you making you stop contacting him.  Those are examples of cases where a guy is giving you mixed signals.


So, what does it mean when a guy gives you mixed signals?  It means that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.  That’s basically it.  If a guy is serious about wanting to be in a relationship with you, he won’t give you green light then red light.  If he is serious about you, he’ll be giving you green light all the way.


I know it’s often said that men are confused when it comes to women and they don’t really know what they want.  Really, that’s not true.  When a man really wants a woman, he goes for her full-force.  And if a guy is acting wishy-washy or confused about wanting you in his life, is that really the kind of person that you want as a boyfriend or husband?  Really?  I don’t think so.


If a guy is acting unsure about what he wants, you be sure about what you want and let him go.  Tell him that when he’s sure that he wants you, he should come back into your life.  And when he does come back, check to make sure that he’s giving you green lights only before you get back into a relationship with him.


I hope this has helped you understand why men give mixed signals and what to do if you see them.  If you want daily tips from me on how to find happiness while you’re single or how to attract the right man for you into you life, follow me on Instagram.   To get my free e-books on love and relationships for the single woman over the age of 30, click here.


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