Why men flirt in texts but don’t ask you out

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I’m a relationship coach who helps single women over the age of 30 attract and keep the right relationship for them.  As a result of the work I do, I often come across issues that women find when they’re dating.  One of those issues is what I’m going to be talking about today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about why men flirt in texts but don’t ask you out.

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Naturally, not every single man in the world does this but so many do that it’s worth talking about.  Generally, men flirt in text messages and other types of messages because they enjoy it.  They think it’s fun.  Men enjoy chasing women and one of the tools they can use in this chasing process is text messages.


If a man is flirting with you in texts but does not ask you out, the reason for that is because he just doesn’t want to.  He doesn’t want to go out with you.  He enjoys the flirting that goes on in the texts but he doesn’t think that actually going out with you in real life will be as much fun.  That’s sad to say but really, that’s the truth.


Now, there are ways that you can manipulate this situation.  You can tell him that you will no longer be texting him until you guys meet in real life and then you stop all the flirting.  Usually, when you do that, he will ask you out.  If you stop flirting back, he will probably ask you out and then you guys will go out on a few dates.


The issue is that those dates that you guys go on will usually NOT turn into a relationship and even if they do turn into a relationship, that relationship will probably not last.  This is what I find in this kind of situations.  I’ve seen this kind of situations happen many times and this is usually the result.


So, the choice is yours.  Actually, you have 3 choices in this matter.  One, keep flirting with this guy in text messages.  Two, tell him that you will no longer text with him until you guys meet up in real life or three, you can stop texting this guy and invest your time in a man who is more interested in you and that man is out there.  Trust me.  The choice is yours.  Choose wisely.


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