How to meet people without an app

how to meet people without an app

In today’s world, dating apps abound.  That doesn’t mean people are having the time of their lives dating, though.  In fact, what I hear from women is that they’re not that keen on dating apps and that’s why I’m here today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to meet people without apps.

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As you may already know, I’m a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30 so my advice in this video is geared towards single women over 30.  What I hear from these women though is that they are NOT having the time of their lives on dating apps.


The dissatisfaction with dating apps seems particularly prevalent with single women over the age of 30.  Some of these women have just come out of long-term relationships and they’ve decided to try dating apps.  What they experienced on those apps was something that they did not like.  These women, who are busy people anyway, have decided to give dating apps a break and want to know how they can meet people without all the apps around today.


Meeting people when you have a busy job and don’t have hours to spend talking about nothing with your friends when you were in your teens or twenties can be difficult so that’s why today, I’m going to be talking about 3 ways you can meet people without an app.


Tip number 1 is to change your routine – even if it’s something as small as leaving home 30 minutes earlier than usual or leaving home for work 30 minutes after you usually do.  Now, I know that for many people, leaving home 30 minutes later than usual can result in you getting to the office 2 hours later.  So if you’re that sort of person, try leaving home 30 minutes before you usually do.  Do it consistently for a month and see what happens.


Tip number 2 on how to meet people without an app is to go to places alone.  Yes, go to places without dragging your sister, your best friend or your cousin alone.  Go to a restaurant alone, go to a bar alone, go to the movies alone.  People are more likely to come and talk to you if you’re alone and don’t have somebody by your side all the time.


Tip number 3 on how to meet people without an app is to be more open-minded.  If you don’t talk to people who don’t have a university degree or you can’t be bothered to make small talk with people who work at the bank, you’re cutting out a lot of potential friends and dates by behaving that way.


I’m not necessarily saying that these are the people that you’ll date but you never know who you can meet through them.  That person who doesn’t have a university degree can have an uncle who is a lawyer and who is ready to settle down.  The person at the bank who you refused to make small talk with could have a boss who has been dying to meet you.  That person could have introduced you to their boss but you didn’t give them the chance because you refused to make small talk with them.  You never know.  You can meet people anywhere and everywhere.  You just have to keep your eyes and your mind open.


I hope these tips on how to meet people without an app have helped you.  If you want more tips from me on a daily basis on how to be happy while single or how to attract the right person for you into your life, follow me on Instagram.  I’ve written a lot of free e-books for single women over the age of 30 on love and relationships.  If you want those e-books free-of-charge, click here.


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