How to know if you’re too high maintenance

how to know if you're too high maintenance

Some women are pretty high maintenance and they wonder if that scares men away.  They wonder if that’s why they’re still single.  Many women who are single and don’t want to be often have many doubts and fears about being single.


And one of those doubts is that they are high maintenance.  Being high maintenance is one of the things they worry about.  They wonder if that’s one of the things that is keeping them single.  So, that’s what I’m going to be talking about today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to know if you’re too high maintenance.

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Are you one of those women who always has their hair and makeup done perfectly?  Are you a woman who can’t rest if they have a broken fingernail?  Do you think that looking good is one of the most important things in life?  If you answered ‘yes’ to any one of those questions then you just might be high maintenance.  Is that a bad thing?  Not necessarily.  Especially if YOU are the one that is funding your high maintenance-ness.


The problem comes when a man tells a woman that she is too high maintenance as happened to a woman who spoke to me.  She had met a guy and kind of liked him but the guy told her that she was too high maintenance and she was worried that he was going to disappear as a result.  Hear this: if a guy says you’re too high maintenance, he is right.  You’re too high maintenance – for him.


This does not mean that you’re too high maintenance for all the men in the world.  There are many men out there who think that a high maintenance woman is highly desirable.  They think women like that are very ladylike and they’re really attracted to such women.  Would you change who you are for a man who hasn’t shown any sign of sacrificing anything and change your own personality or who you are just to please one man when there are so many men out there in the world who think you’re desirable just the way you are?  That doesn’t make any sense.


We need to realise that if a man doesn’t like us, it does not mean that there is something wrong with us.  It just means that we and that guy are not a right fit.  We have to realise that liking a man does not mean that he is the man destined for us.  It does not mean that he is the only man for us.  It does not mean that this man is the only man you will ever love.  Someone somewhere thinks you’re high maintenance and loves it.  Hold out for that person.


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