How to stay optimistic when dating

how to stay optimistic when dating

I think most of us know by now that you’re more likely to get the results you want when you’re optimistic and that applies to the world of dating as well.  But staying optimistic when you’re dating particularly when you’re a single woman over the age of 30 can be difficult and that’s why I’ve made this video.  Today, I’m going to be giving tips on how to stay optimistic when dating.

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Prefer to read rather that watch the video?  Here’s what’s in it: 

The 1st tip I have on how to be optimistic while dating is to treat dating lightly.  If you treat dating like a do-or-die affair, every time something goes wrong, you’re going to sink in despair.  But if you treat dating as something that is fun, almost like a hobby then you’re going to enjoy it more and you’ll be more optimistic.  You’ll also be more likely to get the results that you want.


The 2nd tip I have for you on how to stay optimistic while dating is to realise that you are assessing the other person just as they are assessing you.  Don’t go out on a date desperately hoping that you’ll do the right thing and that the other person will like you.  Instead, think about the other person too and wonder what it is they’re going to do to impress you, wonder if they’re feeling as nervous as you are.  Ask yourself if they’ll be right for you.  Be kind to yourself and you’ll feel more optimistic when dating.


My 3rd tip on how to be optimistic when dating is to remember all the things that have gone right for you in the past.  Did you get a job you really wanted?  Did you travel alone and enjoyed yourself even though you were scared?  Did you lose weight like you planned to one time?  Remember how pleased you were with yourself when you achieved all those things.  Know that if you achieved what you wanted in the past, you can achieve what you want when it comes to dating as well.


You can meet the right person for you.  Sure, it may not happen with the first few people that you date but it will happen in the end.  If you were successful in the past, you can be successful now.  You have done things you found difficult in the past and succeeded; dating will be a piece of cake.


I hope you enjoyed the tips in this blog post and I hope they were helpful for you.  If you want more tips from me on men, love, dating and even more on a daily basis, follow me on Instagram by clicking here.  I also have a lot of free e-books for single women over the age of 30.  These e-books are about love and relationships as well and you can get them here.


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