How to make him miss you

How to make him miss you

Sometimes a guy breaks up with you and you want to make him know what he’s missing.  You want to make him miss you.  If that’s what you want, then sit tight because today, I’m going to be talking about how to make him miss you.

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Before I go into how to make him miss you, I need you to do a bit of self-analysis first.  Why do you want this guy to miss you?  Is it because you want him back in your life?  If he comes back into your life, would it be a good idea?  Yes, you may be excited at first if he comes back but then you may fall into the same routines and the same kind of actions that made the relationship end in the first place.  And when it ends this time, it’s going to be even more painful.  So, think carefully and be sure of what you want before you go ahead.


Now, let’s get into how to make him miss you.  The 1st thing to do to make him miss you is to stop contacting him.  I know it sounds counter-productive but really, it’s probably the best thing you can do.  If you keep contacting him or even worse, you keep begging him, there’s not going to be anything for him to miss.


Think about it.  Who do you miss more?  The friend that you see every day or the friend that you haven’t seen in 5 years.  Of course, it’s the friend you haven’t seen in 5 years that you miss more.  Time and distance make you remember the good things and the good times that you had with one person.  And that’s the principle that is working in this situation as well.  If you want to make a man miss you, stop contacting him.


The 2nd thing to do to make a man miss you is to start enjoying your life and be happy.  Some women think that if they’re miserable and show that they are really sad, it’s going to make the man miss them and rush to their side to be with them again.  Nothing could be further from the truth.  It’s when you’re happy and when the guy sees other men being interested in you that he starts to miss you and starts to wonder if he shouldn’t try to get back with you.


This tip isn’t about pretending to be happy and going to places that you know the guy will be at and then pretending to laugh with other guys and trying to flirt just to make him jealous.  This isn’t about that.  This is about genuinely trying to be happy again.


If it’s been a long time since you were single, it might be a little difficult to remember the things that make you happy or the things that you like doing.  Take small steps.  Think about when you were a child and the things that you liked to do and start doing those things again.  Did you like writing?  Did you like playing video games?  Did you like cooking, talking, drawing?  Whatever it was.  Remember those things and start to do them little by little.


After taking those small steps, you can go on to bigger things like maybe volunteering or travelling.  Whatever it is, start doing things that you know will make you happy again.  If you want to make him miss you, start enjoying life again.


The 3rd thing to do if you want to make him miss you is to take your time when he gets back in touch with you because he will get back in touch.  If you’ve done the other tips I gave earlier, I am almost 100% sure that this guy is going to contact you once again.  When he does, take your time or the attraction will fade quickly for him and he’ll wonder why on earth he even tried to get in touch with you in the first place.


Take your time responding to him and take your time getting back into a relationship with him even if it’s the thing that you want most in the world.  If he is desperate to get back with you, making him wait a week or three or even a month is not going to discourage him.  It’s only going to encourage him even more to try to get back into your life again.  Remember what I said at the beginning though.  Be sure that getting back into a relationship with this guy is something that will be good for you otherwise, you’ll find yourself in a situation where you’re unhappy again.


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