How to know when you’re in love

how to know when you're in love

How do you know if you’re in love or if this thing you feel for this person is just a passing thing?  That’s what I’m going to be talking about today.  Today, I’m going to be talking about how to know when you’re in love.

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Some people think that it’s odd having to help people decipher when they’re in love.  For them, it’s easy to know when they’re in love.  Who needs help with anything like that?  Certainly not you!  And that’s where the problem is.  We forget that because something is easy for us, we think that it’s easy for everybody else and that’s not true.


Some people find it easy to understand maths, for example, and others don’t.  Some people find it easy to work with others and others don’t.  We are all different.  What is easy for you may not be easy for somebody else.  Let’s remember that.


It’s important to know whether you’re in love or whether it’s just a passing thing because that knowledge will help guide your thoughts and guide your actions so that you’ll enjoy the journey and also enjoy the destination when you finally do get there.


The 1st way to know if you’re in love with somebody is to give yourself time.  I know some people say that they knew they were in love with somebody as soon as they met them and that might be true but it’s much easier to tell if you’re in love with somebody after you’ve been with them for a while.  When you first meet somebody and chemicals are rushing through your body, it’s easy to assume that that is love.  But if after six months or one year, you still feel a certain fondness for that person that is greater than what you feel for other people, you know that you’re in love with that person.


The 2nd way to know you’re in love is a willingness to do things for the other person simply because it will please them.  This should not be mistaken for an inclination to do something to please somebody else while putting yourself or other people in danger.  That doesn’t indicate love.  Instead, it might indicate fear, a fear of what would happen if you don’t do what the other person wants, a fear of the consequences of not doing what would please the other person even though it is something that you don’t want to do or even though it is something that you consider dangerous to yourself or to others.


You might love somebody and fear losing them but somebody putting you in a position where you keep having to do things that you don’t like simply to please them is not love.


The 3rd way to know when you’re in love is that the person is always on your mind and this can show itself in the most mundane of ways.  For example, if you’re in the grocery store and you see something that your partner would like and you buy it for them, knowing that it would please them, even if the person didn’t ask you to buy that thing, that is love.


It’s not only the writing of somebody’s name in fireworks or buying a car that indicates that you love somebody.  Sometimes, it’s the small things as well.  Love isn’t just about the big things.  Sometimes, it’s that feeling of peace that you have because you’re with somebody in particular.  Usually in love, it’s the little things that count.


I hope you found this video useful.  If you want more tips from me on a daily basis on how to find happiness while you’re single and how to attract the right person for you, follow me on Instagram by clicking here.   I also have a lot of free e-books that you can download.  These e-books are for single women over the age of 30 and they talk about how to attract the right person for you in a very short period of time.  If you want to get those e-books, click here.


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