As a love coach, a lot of my clients are single women over the age of 30 who would like to get married sooner rather than later. So, if you’re in that category as well, then today’s topic on how to be engaged in 1 year is for you!
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Like many of my clients, I was a single woman in my 30s myself and these tips I’m about to give are tips I used myself. The period between when I decided I wanted to get married and when I got engaged was 11 months so these tips I’m about to give you on how to be engaged in 1 year are tips that I used and are tips that work.
Now, without further ado, let’s get into it. I have 3 tips for you if you want to be engaged in 1 year. The first tip is that you should be honest with yourself. Admit to yourself that you want to get married. If you can’t admit it to yourself then you’re not ready and that’s fine to be honest. There’s no need to rush. Take your time. There’s no need to rush to get married. I always say whenever you’re ready to get married, you will find the right man. And don’t worry. There will still be good men out there for you to marry when you’re ready to get married. Don’t worry about that.
My second tip for you if you want to be engaged in 1 year is to go out more. By going out more, I don’t necessarily mean clubs or parties or whatever although those could help. Just go out more in different ways. Go and see more exhibitions. Go and see more friends. Go to the beach more. Just go out more. It might even be the supermarket but change your routine. If you always go to the supermarket on Saturday mornings, try going on Tuesday afternoons or Wednesday evenings. The point of going out more is so that you can meet more people and so that more people will see you. It takes you out of your normal zone, out of your comfort zone as well. This particular tip is very important. When I told one lady to start doing this, within one month, she had found a new boyfriend. No joke! Go out more.
My third tip if you want to be engaged in 1 year is to keep your vision in your mind. If what you want is to be engaged in 1 year, keep that in your mind constantly. For example, imagine your finger with the ring on it and every time you see that image in your mind, smile. Whenever you feel happy, whenever you feel down, whenever you don’t feel anything, bring that image to the forefront of your mind. Having this image constantly in your mind will help you achieve your goal. You don’t even have to wonder about how it will happen. Just keep that image in your mind constantly and it will happen. I’m telling you. If you do these tips constantly and are faithful to them, within a year, you will be engaged.
I’ll do a brief run-through of my 3 tips again. If you want to be engaged in 1 year, the first tip is that you need to admit it to yourself. Be honest. If you want to be engaged, admit it to yourself that you want to be engaged. Tip number two is to go out more. It’s not likely you’ll be engaged within 1 year if you keep doing the same things. Tip number three is to keep your vision in your mind. Remember constantly that what you want is to be engaged in 1 year. I know that these tips will help. I hope you’ll try them and I hope you do them constantly. Remember to send me an invitation card to your wedding when it does happen and I know it will.
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