Why you can’t find love

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In my work as a relationship coach for single women over the age of 30, one of the questions I get over and over again is: “Why can’t I find true love?”  I’ve gotten that question so many times that I’ve finally decided to make a video about it.  In today’s video, I’m going to be talking about why you can’t find true love.

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Prefer to read rather that watch the video?  Here’s what’s in it: 

There are 3 main reasons why a single woman who says she’s looking for true love can’t find it.  The first of those reasons is that deep down, you’re afraid of relationships, you’re afraid of getting hurt again and that is causing you to draw in men who cannot give you true love.


You might swear up and down that you want to find a good man and settle down but your inner self knows that that is a lie and that is why it is guiding you to take actions that will not let you find true love.


Speaking of actions, the second reason why you haven’t found true love is because you’re not taking the actions that will bring true love into your life.  Are you doing the same things that you were doing this time last year?  Have you tried getting relationship coaching to help you find true love?  Have you ever tried visualisations and affirmations to help you attract true love into your life?  You cannot find true love if you’re not taking the actions that will bring it into your life.


The third and final reason why you can’t find true love is because you’re being negative.  If you sit down with your friends to discuss how horrible men are, if you say things like ‘There are no good men out there’, if you think men are just out there to come and get what they can out of you, you cannot find true love.


You simply will not see it even if it came in the form of a man and sat down right next to you in a bar.  That’s because you would be so focused on all the negative things about him, you wouldn’t see the amazing positive things that he has.  Unless you find a way to stay positive despite the sadness and the heartbreak that you have endured, you cannot find true love.


Those are the 3 main reasons why you can’t find true love.  For daily tips from me on love and relationships, follow me on Instagram.   Get my free love and relationship e-books by clicking here.


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