My work as a relationship coach who helps people over the age of 30 attract and keep the right relationship has revealed to me that it’s not just women who are looking for the ideal partner; men are looking for the right partner as well.
I didn’t get married until I was 34 so I know what it’s like to feel like you’ll never find the right person for you. Because I remember how hopeless searching for the right person for me felt and because my work as a relationship coach has shown me that many men and women out there feel pessimistic about this situation, today, I’ll be talking about the 3 things you need in order to find the right person.
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The 1st thing you need in order to find the right person is confidence. I’m sure that that will surprise many people but it’s true. In order to find the right person for you, you need to have self-confidence. You need confidence to know that you are good enough even when the people that you fancy don’t fancy you back.
You need confidence to know that even though you have been in a lot of relationships that have failed, you can still find yourself in a relationship that will work. You need confidence to know that your ability to find the right partner does not depend on how you look. You need self-confidence more than anything else when you’re hoping to find the right partner.
So, work on your self-confidence and you’re more likely to find the right person for you. If you want help with building your self-confidence, contact me for coaching. You can get details about that by clicking here.
The 2nd thing you need in order to find the right partner is patience. People have different ages at which they feel like settling down but the thing is that as soon as they get to that age, they want to find that person ASAP. When we’re ready, we expect life to produce the perfect partner for us immediately but it doesn’t always work out that way. I always say getting married is easy but getting married to the right person can be tough. It can take time to find that person and for that reason, you need patience.
The 3rd thing you need in order to find the right person is kindness. You need to be kind to yourself in your search for the right person. You also need to be kind to other people. If you meet somebody who thinks that you are the right person for them and you don’t agree, there’s no need for nastiness. Treat the other person like you would want to be treated if you were in their shoes.
If you’ve been trying to find the right person for years and you’re beginning to feel hopeless, there’s no need to start treating yourself badly. It doesn’t mean you should stop wearing makeup or you should stop cooking for yourself or stop laughing. You cannot attract anyone good by treating yourself badly.
Plus, the way you treat yourself is often the way people will treat you. So treat yourself well, be kind to yourself and keep doing whatever you can in order to attract the right person for you.
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