For some people, a big part of not wanting to get married is a fear of the unknown. I was like that for a while. At first, I didn’t want to get married at all because I felt marriage for women was all about cooking, washing plates and changing nappies. Then I got to the…
Many years ago, a friend of mine was getting married and asked me to do her makeup. (Fun fact: doing makeup used to be a side-hustle of mine). Anyway, on the morning of my friend’s wedding, right before I started doing her makeup, I noticed that different women would come and ask to speak to…
There was a time in my life when I kept thinking, “Gosh. I should get married. It’s about time.” And I would wonder if there was something wrong with me and if that was why I wasn’t married. But there was nothing wrong with me. I just wasn’t ready for marriage. Thinking I ‘should be…
When you’re a woman over 30 and single, it can be hard to stay happy. The funny thing is that society seems to support the idea that if you’re a single woman over 30, you should be miserable. I remember a single lady in her 30s that I met a while ago. She was vibrant,…
When a guy likes you, he often shows many signs that he does but because men and women are so different, what he thinks are clear signs he’s interested in you may appear quite fuzzy to you. I remember towards the end of my time in secondary school, one of my favourite ways to torture…